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Live from Birken: Dhamma Q&A with Ajahn Sona (06.28.2026)

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Dalam sesi tanya jawab ini, Ajahn Sona membahas berbagai pertanyaan seputar praktik Buddhis, mulai dari melamun, meditasi, anatta, cinta kasih, hingga pandangan tentang alam semesta. Ia membedakan melamun yang tidak terkendali dari imajinasi yang disengaja dan bermanfaat, seperti dalam praktik metta, serta menekankan dampak melamun terhadap kehadiran dan kemajuan spiritual. Untuk pemula yang sulit duduk diam, ia menyarankan memulai meditasi pernapasan dengan menghitung lima hembusan napas dan secara bertahap menambah durasi, sambil mengakui bahwa meditasi napas itu sulit tetapi bermanfaat. Ia juga berbagi pengalaman pribadi tentang berjalan tanpa alas kaki sebagai bhikkhu, termasuk tantangan dan kerusakan kaki, serta membahas pandangan Buddhis tentang hewan, kapasitas indra mereka, dan pentingnya belas kasih tanpa syarat. Mengenai anatta, ia menjelaskan bahwa ini adalah pemahaman yang menghilangkan ilusi diri, berbeda dengan istilah samar 'kesadaran yang diperluas', dan menggambarkannya sebagai perubahan perspektif yang mendasar. Untuk integrasi objek meditasi, ia merekomendasikan latihan terpisah untuk napas, cinta kasih, dan keseimbangan batin, serta menyarankan kontemplasi 32 bagian tubuh dan empat elemen sebagai latihan tambahan. Ia menekankan bahwa metta diberikan tanpa syarat, tanpa memandang moralitas, dan menjelaskan cara kerja pikiran Arahant, termasuk ketidakmampuan berbuat jahat dan kebebasan dari akibat kamma. Dalam hal disiplin meditasi, ia menekankan pentingnya ketekunan dalam memilih satu objek meditasi, menggunakan analogi latihan piano, serta memberikan nasihat tentang meditasi berjalan dengan kesadaran panoramik (sampajañña). Mengenai kritik diri, ia menjelaskan bahwa kritik diri yang sehat harus dilakukan dengan kasih sayang, seperti seorang ibu yang mengoreksi anaknya, bukan dengan kekerasan yang menyebabkan depresi. Ia juga menegaskan bahwa semua kondisi, termasuk alam surgawi seperti Vaikuntha atau Goloka, adalah tidak kekal, dan hanya Nibbana yang merupakan keamanan sejati. Terakhir, ia menjelaskan lima kemampuan spiritual (keyakinan, energi, perhatian, konsentrasi, kebijaksanaan) dan pentingnya mengembangkan semuanya secara seimbang, serta menjawab pertanyaan tentang sukha dalam jhana. Pesan utama dari ceramah ini adalah pentingnya praktik yang seimbang, disiplin, dan penuh kasih sayang dalam perjalanan spiritual, serta pemahaman mendalam tentang ketidakkekalan dan bukan-diri.

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  1. Melamun dan Imajinasi Produktif
    Ajahn Sona membedakan antara melamun yang tidak terkendali dan imajinasi yang disengaja untuk latihan bermanfaat seperti metta, serta menjelaskan dampak melamun terhadap kehadiran dan kemajuan spiritual.
  2. Memulai Meditasi Pernapasan untuk Pemula
    Ajahn memberikan saran praktis untuk teman yang sulit duduk diam, menyarankan memulai dengan menghitung lima hembusan napas dan secara bertahap meningkatkan durasi, sambil menekankan bahwa meditasi napas itu sulit tetapi bermanfaat.
  3. Hidup Tanpa Alas Kaki dan Kehidupan Hewan
    Ajahn berbagi pengalaman pribadi tentang berjalan tanpa alas kaki sebagai bhikkhu, termasuk tantangan dan kerusakan kaki, serta membahas pandangan Buddhis tentang hewan, kapasitas indra mereka, dan pentingnya belas kasih tanpa syarat.
  4. Anatta dan Kesadaran yang Diperluas
    Ajahn menjelaskan bahwa anatta (bukan-diri) adalah pemahaman yang menghilangkan ilusi diri, berbeda dengan istilah samar 'kesadaran yang diperluas', dan menggambarkannya sebagai perubahan perspektif yang mendasar.
  5. Mengintegrasikan Objek Meditasi
    Menjawab pertanyaan tentang menggabungkan napas, pemindaian tubuh, dan metta, Ajahn merekomendasikan latihan terpisah untuk napas, cinta kasih, dan keseimbangan batin, serta menyarankan kontemplasi 32 bagian tubuh dan empat elemen sebagai latihan tambahan.
  6. Cinta Kasih Tanpa Syarat dan Keadaan Arahant
    Ajahn menekankan bahwa metta diberikan tanpa syarat, tanpa memandang moralitas, dan menjelaskan cara kerja pikiran Arahant, termasuk ketidakmampuan berbuat jahat dan kebebasan dari akibat kamma.
  7. Disiplin dalam Meditasi dan Mengatasi Gangguan
    Ajahn membahas pentingnya ketekunan dalam memilih satu objek meditasi, menggunakan analogi latihan piano, serta memberikan nasihat tentang meditasi berjalan dengan kesadaran panoramik (sampajañña).
  8. Mengatasi Kritik Diri dengan Metta
    Ajahn menjelaskan bahwa kritik diri yang sehat harus dilakukan dengan kasih sayang, seperti seorang ibu yang mengoreksi anaknya, bukan dengan kekerasan yang menyebabkan depresi.
  9. Keabadian dan Ketidakkekalan Alam Semesta
    Ajahn menegaskan bahwa semua kondisi, termasuk alam surgawi seperti Vaikuntha atau Goloka, adalah tidak kekal, dan hanya Nibbana yang merupakan keamanan sejati.
  10. Lima Indriya dan Keseimbangan Batin
    Ajahn menjelaskan lima kemampuan spiritual (keyakinan, energi, perhatian, konsentrasi, kebijaksanaan) dan pentingnya mengembangkan semuanya secara seimbang, serta menjawab pertanyaan tentang sukha dalam jhana.
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I'm Ajahn Sona. Welcome to our Q&A from Birken Forest Monastery.

Feel free to submit a question and I will attempt to answer it.

Let's have the first question.

Yes, Ajahn. The first question is from the chat from Amin from Calgary.

Dear Ajahn, what is daydreaming in its nature and how does it impede one's progress?

Can fantasizing about a wholesome act, for example, a conversation about Dhamma with someone, also have an impeding effect?

Well, daydreaming, there's daydreaming and then there's imagination.

Daydreaming is imagination, but usually it's an impression.

It's an impediment when it's happening on a regular basis without control.

I think a lot of bright people begin to daydream at school.

If they can handle the teaching, they're trapped in a classroom, even as kids,

and they are...

not totally consumed.

Their interest is not consumed by the teaching.

They stare out the window and they remember and they dream and they fantasize.

They learn how to, you know, fantasize in order to prevent boredom.

But it becomes habitual.

And

it's a nuisance.

It becomes annoying after a while because you're not present.

You're not present anymore.

You're always somewhere else.

So, this is not satisfactory.

And also, you begin to drift away in the middle of listening to teachings and so forth

that you should be paying attention to instructions given at work or in university or classrooms.

Even in relationships, you're fantasizing and daydreaming.

And you're...

your significant other is attempting to communicate with you.

And you are somewhere else.

So, this is not satisfactory.

And...

But there is no teaching, really.

Sometimes people say, oh, stop daydreaming, you know.

Pay attention.

But there really isn't, you know, systematic training of how to...

or even advice that daydreaming is a bit of a waste of time.

So, that's what one discovers actually going to Buddhist meditation retreats.

One discovers how frequent daydreaming is

and how helpless you are in being taken, you know, kidnapped in a sense.

You're being kidnapped and find yourself in some other place continuously,

which is called daydreaming.

So, this is not satisfactory.

Not a good situation.

It's really an interesting...

It's an interesting experience to systematically interrupt

and not go with the daydream.

Not go with the dreamy memories or the imaginary playgrounds and so forth.

And it's...

You run up smack dab into your habitual nature.

So, this is a retraining of the mind.

And that's what all it is, is retraining of the mind.

Do an extended long retreat

and you will be very present and aware.

Also, the more you meditate,

especially if you do long deep retreat meditations,

you will suddenly realize that people are daydreaming

even more or less in the intervals between sentences.

When you're in a conversation with them, they're drifting away.

Their eyes flick up to the side.

They have disconnected thought patterns.

This is not...

You're not aware of this

when you are also having these disconnected thought patterns.

But the more you meditate,

the more you're present, fully there,

you realize that people are dreaming,

walking around in a dream all the time, you know?

So, yeah, one should do something about this.

However, is there something productive

where you imagine a situation where...

Yes, you can...

You can do productive imaginary exercises.

Loving-kindness.

You can imagine being in a situation

where people are criticizing you

or misbehaving or even threatening you

and you're maintaining your loving-kindness.

So that's a rehearsal of Dhamma.

So that's systematic

and you're aware that you're doing it

and you can practice in that way.

Loving-kindness.

Whereas metta,

friendliness for all beings,

concern and friendliness for all beings,

is a systematic meditation

using imagination and memory.

So you try to delve into your memory

of moments when you had the experience,

the feeling of friendliness

and then you try to expand it.

But usually you search in your memory

for the feeling of it.

A situation where, you know,

you're visiting your grandparents

or you get a new puppy or something like this.

So you use this memory

and you then turn it into imagination

and expand it.

So it's a deliberate exercise

in memory and imagination.

But it's not just drifting.

So those are the two kind of...

One is pernicious,

random, drifting daydreams.

The other one is useful,

beneficial imagination and memory

to cultivate the divine abidings

of loving-kindness,

of compassion,

of sympathetic joy

and of equanimity.

So that's the difference.

The next question,

which might tie into that answer a little bit,

is from HDTISI

from Bristol, United Kingdom.

Dear Ajahn,

A friend wants to learn meditation

but has tried guided breath meditation

and is unable to sit still

for more than a few minutes

so may give up.

Any advice?

What can I suggest?

Well, you can start...

And this is fragmented attention.

And lots of people have ants in their pants.

They wouldn't even begin to try even.

The idea of watching your breath

is scary for them.

So don't ask them to sit there

for half an hour or an hour

or anything like that.

Ask them, say,

let's do it for one minute.

Can you count two...

Let's say,

can you count five exhalations?

That's all.

See if they can manage five exhalations.

Now, you ask them to do five exhalations

for five days.

Just once a day for five days.

Then ask them to do five exhalations

twice a day for five days.

Counting them without losing your place.

Then ten exhalations.

Counting.

One on the exhalation.

Two...

You don't need to count the inhalation.

We don't speak on inhalation.

We speak on exhalation.

So it's more natural

to just count the exhalations.

So this is one of the...

This is a commentarial trick, actually,

for helping people

to establish themselves

with breath meditation.

But do remember,

breath meditation

is a very, very difficult meditation.

Those who are

practicing breath meditation

should feel a little bit

relaxed about the fact

that it's very difficult

to actually maintain

your attention on breath.

You can be gone

for lengthy periods of time.

And you might think,

oh, it's just me.

Everybody else is paying attention.

No, it's not just you.

It's a very, very high demand

on attention.

It's unnatural.

And that's why the Buddha chooses it.

The breath is a neutral object.

It's neither pleasant nor unpleasant.

And it's something

that we don't pay attention to

because we don't have

to pay attention to it.

It goes on without

being conscious of it.

And so he uses it

because it's portable

and it's with you all the time

until your last breath.

So if you practice with it,

it's a marvelous tool

for increasing your presence,

your groundedness,

your lucidity,

your clarity,

your mindfulness,

all of these things.

But be aware that it's a very,

very high demand exercise.

And it is an exercise.

But it has great rewards as well.

It can be very, very difficult,

very trying,

something you don't want to do,

et cetera,

like a lot of exercises.

But it has great benefits in the end.

But with your friend,

just start them with something

they can do.

Count five out breaths.

And then tomorrow,

count five out breaths.

And then do it twice,

once in the morning,

once in the evening.

Then build it up to 10.

And maybe when they can get to 30,

if they can count to 30,

then ask them,

now stop counting

and see if you can just stay

experiencing the breath.

And give yourself

a 10-minute session.

And if you drift away,

that's fine.

Well, to be expected,

of course,

you're going to drift away.

You're not looking for perfection.

You're not looking

You're looking to try

to begin to change your mind.

So that's the approach.

The next question is from

Deuce Tex Max.

Dear Ajahn,

what has been your experience

walking barefoot?

Have you noticed any unexpected

benefits over the years?

Well, barefoot is our natural condition,

but there's a lot of imaginary benefits

that don't occur.

If you're a monk in Asia,

you have to go barefoot.

And you have to go barefoot

on gravel roads

and through dirt

and sometimes broken glass

and all kinds of things.

You start to develop

heavy calluses on your feet.

And what happens is,

the calluses get so great

that your feet crack

and the skin can't heal

because the calluses are too great.

So you learn a lot about

what it is to live barefoot

as a monk.

And it's more or less

a whole learning process

about how to maintain your feet

so they don't become

permanently cracked

and bleeding and so forth.

So it's not glamorous.

You end up with feet

like a hoof of an animal almost.

Eventually you can walk on anything.

You're walking on sharp gravel

with these heavy calluses.

You don't feel it anymore.

But I don't know whether it's that good.

My feet,

the soles of my feet

from having walked barefoot

for years in these situations

have areas of...

loss of feeling.

Nerves have been lost

and so forth.

I don't want to romanticize

going barefoot.

It's the way it was

at a certain time in history.

People didn't have shoes.

Shoes were hard to come by.

Leather eventually...

There was an area of...

In the time of the Buddha,

he laid down rules.

Monks must go barefoot

on their alms round in villages.

In the monastery,

they can wear sandals.

But then monks went north

into rougher areas,

higher elevations,

harsh, rocky areas.

And they were having a lot of trouble

with their feet.

And one of them asked permission,

showed the Buddha his bleeding feet

and said, you know,

is it possible

that I could wear a sandal?

And the Buddha allowed.

I allow monks the wearing

of one strip of leather sandal.

And then the sandal,

the one strip,

wore out very quickly.

And so he allowed two layers,

then three, then four layers.

So this is the proper way

to contextualize this.

Simply the act of going barefoot

is just not just 100%

a great idea.

It depends on the environment,

it's lovely to walk on the beach

barefoot sometimes,

on grass barefoot sometimes,

on just nice dirt sometimes.

A walk around the house barefoot,

very nice.

But look at the feet of villagers

who live barefoot.

It can be very damaging as well.

The next question is from Tandon

from Washington, New York.

From Washington, United States.

Will you expound a bit about animals?

I've practiced as a layperson

for 30 years in both the Tibetan

and Theravadan traditions.

As a farmer and growing up,

I have had a life of relationships

with birds, horses, dogs, goats,

sheep and cattle,

as well as having cougars

and bears in my environment.

I can't accept that they are

of a lower realm.

Their perceptions and senses

are very keen in my experience.

Yes.

Well, here at the monastery

we're also surrounded by animals

continuously.

The day before yesterday

there was a bear on the property.

So we all got a notice,

there's a bear on the property.

Watch out, big black bear.

Moose, deer,

range cattle,

all kinds of birds, etc.

So we're in interaction

with them all the time.

And they have exquisite senses,

far exceeding human capacities.

Their sense of smell sometimes,

their sense of hearing.

Some of the birds, like the eagles,

have incredible vision possibilities.

They have intuitions,

intuitive senses about location

and so forth.

But they don't have

a moral sense.

They don't have reasoning processes.

So they can't stand outside themselves

or reflect on things like that.

So that's kind of what humans

have developed this capacity,

which in some cases is a curse.

Humans' development

of the mind is also

prone to agonizing

indecisions,

learning ideas that are wrong, etc.

So that's really what we're getting at.

Of course, the Buddha,

from a Buddhist point of view,

we have been animals.

So that's why Buddhism

never had much of a difficulty

with the theory of evolution.

From the theory of evolution,

we are animals.

Humans are animals.

We evolve out of early forms of life.

We evolve through

humanoid kind of systems.

And we can see things

that are very closely related to humans.

The apes and monkeys and so forth

share much of the genetic structure.

So we also practice compassion

because they also fear violence

and injury to themselves and death.

And they also display reactivity

to non-threats.

You can see all the domestic animals

we have respond to kindness,

and they become very attached

to their owners and so forth.

So Buddhism has this attitude

that all beings should be

treated with kindness

or at least not harmed.

But we recognize there is

a scale of consciousness,

that the animals have

some advanced capacities

with their senses,

but not with

reflective capacity,

as far as we know.

Some of them are mysterious.

What do dolphins think?

What are elephants thinking?

Obviously we see with elephants,

dolphins,

some of the higher animals,

quite amazing capacities.

So we don't know

quite their capacity.

And what we also see is that

some humans are missing

some elements of mental capacity as well.

They are unable to think properly

or they are devoid of certain feelings

and affects.

So yeah, it's quite a mixture.

But generally it appears

the organizational capacities,

the capacity to communicate

and cooperate

is very sophisticated in humans.

To have abstract ideas,

the use of very,

the creation of very complex tools,

and ethical systems

are the mark of the

development of the mind, yes.

The next question from the chat

is from Mudita.

Dear Ajahn,

I enjoy caring for all the animals

I care for.

However, my challenge is with

the owners and people.

Is it time to let go?

Well, it's always time to let go.

We shouldn't be clinging

and holding on to anything.

It makes, you know,

when we're,

when we're irritated

and frustrated with the way people

relate to animals

or treat animals,

we suffer.

And this kind of problem

of humans and animal interaction

is age old

and will continue

into the long into the future.

So,

so we have to

not indulge in these negative emotions

It doesn't help the animal,

doesn't help the people,

and it doesn't help us

if we're frustrated

and even saddened

or disappointed in people

because they're not

dealing with animals properly,

they're not compassionate, etc.

So,

we can do what we will

in order to improve animal welfare

or make people understand

the relationship to animals.

But we,

there's no need for us to do

it with negative emotion

because that only injures ourselves.

So, we do it with goodwill.

We do it with goodwill

towards ourselves,

towards the animals,

and towards the other people

who are not,

not very understanding

of the proper relationship

to the other animals.

The next question from the chat

is from Monica.

Is expanded conscious awareness

similar to the experience

of Anatta?

Well,

the,

no, not necessarily.

I mean, first of all,

expanded consciousness awareness

is such an indefinite kind of term

that we don't really know

what is meant by it.

Anatta means no self

or not self,

that we don't find

a substantial self.

So,

that,

first of all,

is an idea

and it can become an experience.

Where,

it is an,

it is an idea to begin with.

We,

we don't have a self.

We never had a self

to begin with.

So,

when we

overcome the idea,

what we're doing is

overcoming an illusion

or a delusion.

It's like discovering

you're adopted,

you know, like,

you,

you thought

you were the child

of so and so

and then you're

15 years old

or 20 years old

and you find out that

those aren't your parents.

Is that similar to expanded

consciousness awareness

or,

I don't know.

It,

suddenly,

a whole belief system

evaporates.

You were,

you were under the

illusion,

the mistaken illusion

that you were

their child

and now it turns out

you,

you were,

you are the child

of other parents.

These people aren't

your parents.

Isn't that interesting?

All kinds,

we can find out

all kinds of

mysterious things

we believed

and they turn out

to be false.

So,

this is,

this is the nature

of this understanding

of anatta.

It's people

understanding that

the world is,

is round

and suspended

in space

rather than flat.

Sitting on a

back of a turtle

or something.

This is,

this can be a shocking

re,

perspective

on reality.

So,

this is what it is.

And I suppose

it changes

your consciousness.

It changes

your perspective.

But,

what,

we can't say

too much about

expanded consciousness

awareness

because it's just too vague.

The terms are too vague.

Yeah.

The next question

from the chat

is from Eric

in Red Deer,

Alberta,

Canada.

Dear Ajahn,

as daily practice

develops,

breath,

body scanning

and metta

and upeka

integrate organically.

Should I trust

this

or intentionally

emphasize

one meditation

object

or a particular

sequencing?

Well,

breath

is

a

very

central

meditation

subject

for Buddhism.

It is

the subject

that the Buddha

used himself,

breath

awareness.

And,

but,

you know,

whether you're

doing it

the correct

way,

in a way

that's very useful

to you

is another thing.

Then you talk

about body scanning.

That body

scanning

is a particular

kind of

idea

of

in certain

Vipassana schools.

Generally speaking,

it is not,

you don't find

specific instructions

about

scanning

the body

from

the soles

of the feet

to the head,

et cetera,

as an

exercise

in

sensations.

It's

a

specialized

technique

from

some of the

Burmese

Vipassana schools.

It's used

in the Goenka

schools as well.

But it's

you do

find

instructions

to

you know,

kind of

imagine

the body

or

see

the body

from the soles

of the feet

to the

hairs

on your

head.

Is body

meditation

not,

it's

nothing

to do

with

sensations.

It's

to do

with

the reality

of the body,

it's

to give you

detachment

from the body,

to see the body.

They talk

about

divided into

32 parts,

head hair,

body hair,

nails,

teeth,

skin,

flesh,

fluids,

bones,

bone marrow,

all of these

things,

intestines,

blood,

all of these

things

to get

real

about the

body.

But that's

not

a specific

technique

that

you just

basically

don't find

in the

compendium

of meditation

subjects

in the

suttas.

So I'm

setting that

one aside.

I don't

teach that,

etc.

I don't

practice that

one.

So breath

meditation,

yes.

Reflection

on the

body,

yes.

And you

can do

32 parts

of the

body,

or the

four elements

of the

body,

the

fluids,

the

heat,

fluids,

solids,

and air.

You can

turn the

body

into

these

basic

elements.

These are

specifically

mentioned

in the

suttas.

And then

equanimity,

loving kindness

and equanimity,

yes,

they're

quite

natural.

They need

to be

practiced

specifically.

They are

single

topic

practices.

So you

focus on

loving kindness,

develop it,

concentrate it,

and do it

frequently

and deeply.

The instructions

for the

development

of loving

kindness

are very,

very heavy

on the

practice

a lot of

time

practicing.

It's like

learning to

play classical

piano.

You spend

hours in

the

practice

room.

If you

want to

play

music,

good

music,

you're

going to

have to

spend

hours in

the

practice

room.

If you

want to

generate

loving

kindness,

you want

to be

good at

this loving

kindness,

if you

want to

make it

an essential

part of

your

personality,

you're

going to

have to

spend a

lot of

time doing

it.

And also

with

equanimity.

So there's

three different

specific

exercises.

Breath

meditation

for

developing

clarity,

concentration

and mindfulness

and serenity.

Loving

kindness

for

developing

the

sublime

warmth

of

loving

kindness.

Equanimity

for the

sublime

coolness

of

philosophical

detachment.

And

if you

want to

then I

recommend

32 parts

of the

body.

Dividing

the body

into 32

parts,

you'll

find

instruction

for this

easily.

And also

the four

element

meditation

on the

body

as well.

The next

question is

from TV

from Finland.

When we

give loving

kindness

to ourselves

and others,

how do we

know what

to choose

to make

effort

towards in

a corrupt

lay world

versus

self-liberation?

Well,

loving

kindness

towards the

so-called

corrupt

lay world

has nothing

to do

with whether

they're

corrupt or

not.

It's

without

any

conditions

attached.

So it's

not loving

kindness

if you're

having difficulty

because they're

corrupt and

problematic.

It's

you don't

have any

when you

radiate

loving

kindness

for

beings,

you're

not asking

whether

they're

pure

or

corrupt,

whether

they're

large,

because

conditions,

no strings

attached,

you're

just radiating

loving kindness

towards them

without strings

attached.

And you also

do this to

yourself

without

strings

attached.

You have

failings,

you have

good points,

you have

bad points,

but that's

not what

you take

into

consideration

when you

do loving

kindness

for yourself.

It's simply

the pure

radiation of

goodwill

towards yourself

and the

pure

radiation of

goodwill,

friendliness,

and the

wish for

well-being

for all

beings.

And you're

not concerned

about their

moral

condition,

whether

they deserve

it or

not.

It's

not whether

they deserve

it.

It's the

fact that

you will

give yourself

the gift

of the

beautiful

experience

of loving

kindness.

And

don't

interfere

with it

by asking

whether

people

deserve

it.

So that's

how you

deal with

it.

So you

can

radiate

it

to the

The next

question from

the chat

is from

Christian.

Dear

Ajahn,

with

Sakya Ditti

eradicated,

how does

Chaitanya

operate in

an

Arahant's

Kyriachitta

to select

actions

without

breaking

upayika?

Well,

Sakya

Ditti

is

view

of self

and that

falls away

actually at

stream entry,

the first

stage of

enlightenment.

A fixed

view of

a solid

self is

relinquished.

This is

what makes

you

a

first

stage of

enlightenment.

You

have

kind of

seen

through

the

fiction

of

a

fixed

self.

It

is,

but there

are still

things

remaining

that

need to

be overcome.

And so

you also

mentioned

this

Arahant

and

this

Chaitanya.

So,

Arahant

is the

fourth

stage of

enlightenment,

fully

delivered

from

any

trace

of the

sense of

self.

And

so

Sakya

Ditti,

this

first

sense

of

view

of

self

has

been

overcome,

but there's

still

traces

left.

And

that's

only

overcome

by the

Arahant

in

the

fourth

stage.

What's

called

ignorance.

One of the

fetters

is ignorance,

and that

is finally

overcome by

the

fourth

stage of

enlightenment.

And

then what

is the

mental

processes

of this

Arahant?

How

do they

make

decisions

and

how

does it

not

affect

their

equanimity?

Well,

they're

not always

in

equanimity.

Equanimity

is one

mental

state.

It is

the

seventh

factor

of

the

seven

factors

of

enlightenment.

And

there are

basically

two

kinds

of

equanimity.

One is

the

Christian

uses

the

word

upeka.

Upeka

means

equanimity

or

beautifully

balanced

mind,

a very

balanced

mind.

There's

two kinds

of

that.

One

is

in

conscious

interaction

with

the

world.

You

remain

balanced

in

the

midst

of

praise

and

blame,

success

and

failure,

good

fortune

and

bad

fortune.

This

kind

of

situation,

fluid

situation

in

the

world,

you're

in

concentration

states,

is

pervaded

by

equanimity.

That

equanimity

is

primarily

a

manifestation

of

stillness,

exquisite

stillness.

There's

no

activity

of

the

brain,

the

mind

or

the

body.

This

is

accessible

for the

arahant and

they maintain

these things,

but they

also can

swing into

the

condition

of

joy

or

serenity.

They

can

reflect

and

they

do

intentionally

good

actions

as

well.

They

teach,

and

their

intention,

what is

the

intention

that they

have is

said to

be

without

results.

So,

they have

gone

beyond

good and

evil.

It means

that they

have

gone

beyond

having

the

fruits

of

good

actions

because

they

have no

future

lives.

They are

at the

end of

the

rebirth

cycle.

So,

although

they do

good,

they

do

beautiful

good

things,

they

will

not

experience

the

fruits

of

those

actions.

Because

there is,

they will

not be

reborn

into

samsara

and

experience

those.

And they

will not

experience

bad

things because

they don't

do any

bad

things.

They're

incapable,

not only

do they

not do

evil,

they

cannot

do

evil.

So,

that is

roughly

a way of

answering

that question.

The next

question from

the chat

is from

Brendan

Breathes.

During a

meditation,

is it

good to

use

only a

single

focus

or

technique,

or is

it advisable

to change

on the

fly

based on

the

feeling

tone?

Or could

this represent

a kind

of agitation

of the

mind?

Again,

it's kind

of like

practicing

the piano,

you know.

You might

want to

just get

on to

playing

some

Mozart

or

Beethoven,

but you

don't have

the finger

capacity.

So,

you're

going to

have to

spend

some hours

just doing

scales.

And you

can't just

bypass

that,

otherwise

you'll

always

play

badly.

So,

you do

have to

do

these

technical

exercises.

Watching

the

breath

and so

forth

increases

your

clarity

and capacity.

And it may

not be

fun.

It can

even be

some suffering

that leads

to the

end of

suffering

in some

of these

exercises.

You're

bored and

restless,

but you

decide,

well,

I have

to meditate.

I can't

just follow

my

restlessness.

I can't

just distract

myself.

You decide,

okay,

ahead of

time,

I don't

care what

kind of

state I'm

in,

I'm

going to

do just

breath

meditation

for the

next

45

minutes

or an

hour.

And I

don't

care if

I feel

restless

or

anxious

or

whatever.

I am

going to

persist

with this.

And then

now you

can decide,

okay,

in the

afternoon,

what I'm

going to

do is

just loving

kindness.

I'm

going to

see if

I can

establish

myself

in

goodwill

and

friendliness

and see

if I can

maintain

that

through

the

afternoon.

So these

are all

positive

exercises

that you

can do.

But you

don't have

to just

abandon

a

meditation

determination

whimsically

because

you're

not

feeling

it.

So sometimes

you have

to just

persist

even

though

you're

not

producing

any good

fruit.

You might

have to go

to loving

kindness

because

it will

settle

you in

order that

you can

do

breath

meditation,

et cetera.

So you

have to

have some

wisdom

and

compassion

but also

discipline

as well.

Next question

from the chat

is from

Joni.

Dear Ajahn,

I have

been doing

walking meditation

on a trail

and need

to watch

the ground

a few inches

in front of my

feet.

I am

distracted

by all

the branches

and leaves.

How do I

refocus

with these

distractions?

Well,

you don't

have to

actually

watch

every

inch

of your

foot

in front

of your

feet.

You don't

you

were

plowing

a

field.

So a

farmer

plows

a

field

with

these

wooden

plows,

you know,

with

an ox

pulling

a wooden

plow.

And they

just keep

their eye

on the

point of

the plow

so they

know where

it's going.

And they're

not distracted

by the

neighbors

or the

birds

in the

sky,

etc.

They're

watching

in front

of them.

So you

don't

have to

watch

two inches

in front

of your

foot.

You're

watching

six feet

in front

of you.

Of course

you don't

want to

walk into

a branch

or a

tree.

It's

normal.

They have

a term

for

this,

sampajanya.

Mindfulness

is

sati

and

panoramic

awareness,

comprehension,

appropriate

awareness.

And this

is the

instruction

for the

monk

when they

go on

alms round

in the

village.

They're

to make

sure that

their

robes

are all

put on

properly.

Then they

are to

attend

mindfully,

not

getting

interested

in the

sights

and sounds

and smells

and tastes

and touches

around them.

Not to

drift away

in thought.

So this

is mindfulness.

And

sampajanya,

meaning

they

need to

stay on

the route,

on their

alms round.

They need

to go

up the

right

street

and turn

left at

such and

such a

place.

And not

to be distracted

by the

surroundings.

But they

don't fall

into a

ditch

either by

staring at

the

ground

two inches

in front

of them.

Or walking

off the

trail.

Or walking

into a

branch

or a

wall.

They have

to have

both

things.

Mindfulness

and

clear

comprehension.

In meditation.

Yeah.

The next

question is

from Nessa.

Dear Ajahn,

where does

self-criticism

fall in

the five

hindrances?

Is metta

the best

response?

Yes.

Yes.

So,

the Buddha

has a

little

summary.

As a

mother

protects

her

child,

her

only

child.

A mother

doesn't

indulge

the child.

Because the

mother loves

the child,

they correct

the child.

You know,

the child is

putting,

you know,

messing

their face

up with

food or

dropping

food on

the ground.

They don't

think it's

all right.

They say,

no,

don't

do that,

dear.

The child

picks its

nose.

No,

that's not

nice,

dear.

You don't

do that.

The child

walks out

without any

pants on.

So,

then the

mother makes

sure that

they understand.

You must

wear clothes

in public,

you know.

So,

this kind

of thing.

Don't

make so

much

noise.

Don't shout

now.

You know,

we don't

shout.

We don't

hit.

So,

the mother

is constantly

critiquing

the child

and giving

the child

good advice

how to

improve

their

behavior.

But it's

with loving

kindness.

They're

not angry.

They're

not

disappointed.

They're

kindly,

it's out

of kindness

that they're

seeking to

improve the

quality of

the child's

life.

So,

it's out

of kindness

to yourself

that you're

seeking to

improve the

quality of

your life.

So,

when you

critique

yourself,

you don't

do it

through

harsh

negative

stuff,

making

you sad

and depressed

about your

terrible

faults and

so forth.

This is a

very widespread

practice.

Especially

women

are much

more prone

to this.

But men

do it

as well.

And they

end up being

very depressed

because they're

so disappointed

in themselves.

But that's

the wrong

approach to

the whole

thing.

You can

critique

yourself,

but you

can't

critique

The next

question is

from Stefan.

Dear Ajahn,

how does

Buddhism

understand

timeless

states like

Valikuntha

or Goloka?

Are they

truly

eternal or

are they

still

impermanent?

All states

are

impermanent.

All

conditioned

things

are

impermanent,

including

mental states,

consciousness.

Any form

of consciousness

is impermanent.

So this

is what

the Buddha

apparently

discovered

when his

first

teachers,

after he

left the

palace,

he,

of course,

was wise

enough to

find that

the pleasures

of the

palace,

the dancing,

the drinking,

the romances,

the fun

and games,

the music

and the art

and so forth,

are temporary.

You know,

it was wonderful

yesterday,

now what

will we

do today?

And sometimes

rather shallow

as well.

So he is

looking for

a higher

condition

which

might

overcome

these

limited

happiness,

this limited

joy of

the sensory

world.

So he

studies with

these various

yogis

and he

learns

formless

meditations

that,

you know,

you concentrate

on

space,

on

consciousness,

on

nothingness,

on

neither

perception

or

perception,

you know.

So these

are

abstract

ideas

and

are

which

the

yogis

at the

time

thought

this would

be,

if we

could be

reborn

into

these

bodiless

conditions,

formless

conditions,

that

would be

a safe

place

out of

the

changing

nature

of

samsara,

the

precarious

and dangerous

of everything

is so

precarious

and unpredictable.

Is there

any way

we could be

safe?

So this is

what philosophers

have been

seeking.

Some philosophers

have been

seeking safety

and religion

in a sense

seeks safety.

Is there

a heaven

where we

could go

after,

when we

die,

is there

a heaven

we can

go to

where it's

safe?

So these

are the

things that

the Buddha

attempted

and found

that all

of them

were limited,

that all

of them

have

time

limits

on them.

They're

more or

less

like orbits.

A rocket

goes into

orbit

and the

farther

it goes

out of

the

gravitational

pull

because of

the gravity

eventually

the orbit

will end.

The higher

the orbit

the longer

the orbit.

But eventually

it falls

back into

the gravitational

pull.

So it's

not an

ultimate

answer

to the

where

one is

safe.

So

whatever

that term

that,

can you

repeat

the term

that he

that he

had?

Yes,

it was

valikuntha

or goloka.

Or goloka.

Or,

so two

terms.

Valikuntha

is one.

Goloka.

G-O-L-O-K-A.

Yeah,

well

all of

those

things

are

impermanent.

Any form

of

knowledge

is

from

Tim

from

Maine,

United

States.

As

an

abbot,

he

intelligent,

analytical.

So those

are two

of the

faculties.

The first

faculty is

faith or

confidence.

The ability

to

have a

conviction

in something.

That's the

first,

what is

called

sada.

And then the

last one,

the fifth

one is

intelligent

or wisdom,

panya.

And some

people are

wise,

you know,

they've

thought it

through and

they've

carefully

analyzed it

and so

forth.

And others

are,

they have

these very

devoted convictions.

They don't

know all

of the

fancy stuff,

they haven't

worked it out

that way.

Others,

so then the

next,

the second

faculty is

energy.

So some

people are

very energetic,

lots of

energy.

They're up

early in

the morning,

energized all

day long.

And others

are very

mindful,

they have

a great

capacity

for

meditation.

And so

they have

a

capacity

to enter

into deep

stillness.

And you,

the,

it's not

that hard

to spot

these

personality

types.

All five

of those,

so confident,

it's a

reasoned

conviction.

The first

one is

faith

or

reasoned

conviction.

Conviction

is commitment

to

something.

And so

the first

the

second

one is

the

third

one is

the

fourth

one is

the

fifth

one is

the

sixth

one is

the

seventh

one is

the

eighth

one is

the

seventh

one is

the

eighth

one is

the

seventh

one is

one is

one is

the

seventh

one is

the

eighth

one is

the

seventh

one is

the

seventh

one is

the

seventh

can't remember what's appropriate they keep making the same mistake others are

wise so all five of these have to be developed so this is the five faculties

need to be converted into the five powers so this is a very important

teaching and so that was the teachers job is to to help people who are faith

have lots of faith but not much wisdom to develop their wisdom faculty some

people who are wise or intelligent don't have the the commitment faculty they

don't have the faith faculty so the the teacher will point out how frustrating

it is to just have an endless number of possibilities but never had to act on

any one of them never to commit to any one of them others need to raise their

energy levels

so the the the teacher will give them all kinds of exercises to raise their

energy levels to cultivate their concentration or cultivate their

mindfulness and there are they all interact with each other at these five

faculties interact with each other and then they you need to keep cultivating

them if you're weak in any area you need to develop that area and tell it that

you you have power in all of these you are you have conviction and faith you

have energy you have mindfulness you have

concentration and you have wisdom the next question is from William 42 when

doing breath jhana meditation PT went from being overwhelming to gradually

disappearing leaving a gentle Sukha behind Sukha seems to be staying with me

and while I enjoy it I'm wondering if I should be actively trying to get rid of

it in order to build equanimity instead okay so let's just

okay so let's just

for the audience

explain these terms PT means joy Sukha is usually bodily happiness these are

characteristic of samadhi practice the first jhana this is the first level of

of this concentration faculties of concentration

development

And PT, this joy, is a characteristic of this first jhana, the first jhana level.

Joy. And it can be very strong. It can be little shivers up the spine.

Your hair can even stand on end. You can have little tears come out the side of your eyes.

You know, joy. You see this at a football game.

You'll see that they play the national anthem or your team wins and you get shivers of joy up your spine, right?

Or they stand on the podium and get the medal and then they're weeping out of the side

or their parents are in the audience watching and their tears are streaming outside.

The joy, right? It's not exclusive to spiritual practice.

It happens in worldly situations as well. Joy.

And

the after effect is happiness. You feel happy.

In these worldly experiences, you get joy and then afterglow of happiness.

So it's fine. It's a beautiful thing.

But people aren't in that all the time.

Maybe looking back on it after some time,

the joy and the experience of happiness has faded away

but you feel happy.

You feel very calm and serene and it's a very beautiful experience in retrospect as well.

So that's something that also is a beautiful thing to experience.

They're all beautiful and nothing has to be removed or moved on from necessarily.

There is joy and happiness, which is beautiful.

And then there's equanimity.

They're just different states which are both very laudable, very beautiful,

especially when they're developed from spiritual points of view rather than worldly experiences,

inner experiences that you have control over.

So that's the idea there.

So we will wrap it up for today.

And we will aspire to be back next week with more opportunities for questions and answers.